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It’s getting kids to eat what parents serve that causes so many problems.

DINA ROSE, PhD is a sociologist, parent educator and feeding expert, empowering parents to raise kids who eat right.


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Tuesday
Nov022010

Feeding Future Adults

When you shoot your kids from the cannon, what eating trajectory will they be on?

  • If your kids have the same eating habits as adults as they have today, will you think they have learned to eat right?  Or
  • Do you hope your kids change how they eat as they get older?

You know how Oprah talks about "Aha Moments?" Well here's one to consider: I once asked a friend why she doled out carrots (or other veggies) with lunch every day. She said it was because she wanted to teach her kids the habit of daily vegetable-eating.  Why, I asked her, did she also give them chips every day?  I saw the lightbulb go off.  

We start teaching lifetime habits in childhood. Your kids aren't actually kids. They're really future adults.

Of course, the job isn’t just about the future; we’ve got to take care of the little buggers today too.  But if you think about it, the parenting imperative is really to teach kids the stuff they’ll need to survive, if not actually thrive, when we launch them into the worlds on their own

If you have been thinking that it doesn’t matter so much what your toddler eats because there’s time for improvement, I’ve got news for you: bad eating habits don’t get better. 

The news is grim. A recent study of 2-18 year olds found that close to 40% of the calories consumed by kids come from empty calories. In other words, our kids are consuming a lot of foods that have virtually no nutritional value. 

Half of those empty calories come from just 6 foods:

  • Soda
  • Sugary Fruit Drinks
  • Grain desserts, such as cake, cookies and donuts
  • Dairy desserts, such as ice cream
  • Pizza
  • Whole milk

I  know it is hard to think of milk calories as empty. It is milk, after all.  But compared to skim, whole milk is loaded with fat (and not the good kind of fat either).  Read When Calories Don't Count.  Also check out Coke Beats Juice.

If anything, eating habits get worse.

Look at how Whole Milk and Fruit Juice turn into Soda and Pizza as the top 2 sources of calories:

  • Children age 2-3 —  #1 Source=Whole Milk; #2 Source=100% Fruit Juice
  • Children age 4-8 —   #1 Source=Grain Desserts; #2 Source=Yeast Breads
  • Children age 9-13 — #1 Source=Grain Desserts; #2 Source=Pizza
  • Children age 14-18 — #1 Source=Soda; #2 Source=Pizza

The researchers also discovered...

  • 2-3 year olds get 13% of their calories from added sugars, and kids 4 and up get almost one fifth (18%) of their calories from added sugars.
  • 2-3 year olds get most of their fat from milk and meat, but 14-18 year olds get most of theirs from pizza and pie (and cookies, cakes and other grain desserts).

These habits carry on into adulthood.  Read Why Adults Eat Poorly.

The solution is simple: THINK BIG!

It's hard to imagine that changing the way you think will change the way your kids eat, but it will.  Ask yourself what eating habits you want your children to have when they're grown and then feed accordingly.

Kids who start out consuming empty calories, tend to stay the course.  After all, change is hard to achieve. 

Read Think Big! Habits for a Lifetime

It is easy to lose sight of the future when it comes to feeding kids because immediate nourishment is so important.

Plus, no one really expects kids to eat right.  (Even pediatricians frequently tell parents to wait it out.)

Taste preferences and food choices, though, are more nurture than nature. How else can we explain the simple truth that Indian kids like curry and American kids like chicken nuggets?

The foods your kids eat early in life have a long-term influence on their eating habits. Do your kids a favor: Feed them the way you hope they'll eat when they're grown... and save them from a future struggle. 

~ Changing the conversation from nutrition to habits. ~

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Source: Reedy, J. and S. Krebs-Smith. 2010. “Dietary Sources of Energy, Solid Fats, and Added Sugars Among Children and Adolescents in the United States.” Journal of the American Dietetic Association 110(10): 1477-84.

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Reader Comments (6)

I agree with everything being empty calories on that list except whole milk. this will probably be a dissenting view but please do consider research that is finding saturated fat that is found in dairy, meat etc. is not to blame for heart disease and diabetes (sugar/refined carbs may be). there was a meta-analysis recently published that found no connection between saturated fat intake and heart disease. also, there was a study done in sweden which found that kids fed whole dairy were slimmer then kids who drank no dairy or skim milk. studies have also shown that kids drinking skim milk fill up more on sugar sweetened beverages then kids drinking whole milk. also, the journal NUtriion, recently wrote a review of the 2010 usda's dietary guidelines and looks critically at the low-fat advice- http://www.nutritionjrnl.com/article/S0899-9007(10)00289-3/abstract
here are the links to these studies im refering to- http://www.reuters.com/article/idUSTRE61341020100204, http://www.ajcn.org/cgi/content/abstract/ajcn.2009.27725v1, and http://gupea.ub.gu.se/handle/2077/20457

November 2, 2010 | Unregistered Commenteremily

I also disagree with the whole milk comments. Fat is very important for the absoption of nutrients. There are many things I'd avoid far quicker than whole milk. Raw milk is an even better choice.

November 2, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterJ in VA

Emily and J in VA,

I agree that there is mixed advice/findings about saturated fat. Thanks for pointing it out - I should have in the original post. However, these are the foods identified by the researchers and I still think there study has a lot to offer.

Thanks for your comments.

Dina

November 2, 2010 | Registered CommenterDina Rose

Dina, I think this post is spot-on.

That study is frightening, isn't it? (I really like how they point out that the key is the discrepancy between calorie intake and energy burning - but that it doesn't make sense to reduce the calories in nutritious foods; thus, it suggests a diet lower in empty calories is better.) Almost as scary as the one in the UK that said 1 in 4 children there eat meals alone in their rooms.

November 2, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterMichele Hays

Allthe literature where I live says skim milk is not suited for children under 7 as it doesn't meet their nutritional requirements. Is this wrong or just differing view points

November 3, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterBec

Michele,

I don't know about the British study that shows 1 in 4 kids eats alone in their room. Yikes. I'll have to look into that one!

Bec,

Everything I have read says that children under 2 need full fat, but after that skim is fine. If you find something to the contrary, I would love to learn about it.

Dina

November 15, 2010 | Registered CommenterDina Rose

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